I have been married for 11 1/2 years now and have 2 beautiful girls. Mark has been an avid hunter as long as I have known him. He took a few years off after we had the girls (which was FANTASTIC), but he has hunted the rest of the time. I was always so jealous of what I would call "his time." He would tell me to go do something. I never knew what that was. I mean....he had a purpose, going to the woods or the duck blind....shoot something...definite purpose. I couldn't come up with something for me that had a purpose. I tried to shop every so often or "spa days," but it just never worked.
I have really gotten into working out. Now, don't get me wrong...I eat TONS and don't exercise hours upon hours a day. I do however go to the gym at least 3-4 times a week and am now training for a 5K (early stages mind you). But, it is "me time." I LOVE it!!! I worried "me time" would take away from my girls...I haven't missed but a thing or 2 in a 2 year time period. I worried it would burden Mark, when I was gone an hour and half a day....but he is fine with it!! I am lucky....I know! :)
"Me time" has made me a better wife, mom, and person. I feel better after some "me time." I don't have guilt (like I was afraid I would) and my family isn't deprived when I am not here...they carry on! Sometimes we have to know what we need to make us better!
I still think "me time" for you should consists of some Girls Nights Out!!
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ReplyDeleteeveryone deserves me time. It is healthy. I'm glad you found something you enjoy doing.
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